Here is a simple tool to help you discover areas of strengths and weaknesses in your life, determine potential areas of fulfillment, and learn a little about yourself. Use the following list to evaluate your development as a healthy adult in the light of your relationship with Christ and your desire to follow in His footsteps.
Use this scale:
1 = Often
2 = Occasionally
3 = Seldom
____ Ministering to others.
____ Enlarging my own leisure interests.
____ Developing a stimulating career.
____ Learning hospitality.
____ Dealing with hostilities.
____ Dealing with failure.
____ Developing personal relationships with the opposite sex.
____ Developing personal relationships with the same sex.
____ Developing personal relationships with children.
____ Continuing the development of my mind.
____ Keeping informed on public affairs.
____ Learning ways in which to mature and be fulfilled.
____ Developing good personal grooming and health habits.
____ Keeping good relationships with my family.
____ Seeking God's will for my life.
____ Developing adequate ways to deal with my own sex drives.
____ Developing a meaningful prayer life and personal Bible study time.
____ Sharing deep feelings and concerns with someone of the same sex.
____ I like myself.
____ Experiencing contentment most of the time.
____ Managing money well, and knowing whom to contact for help if needed.
____ Feeling I am the head of my home/apartment and responsible to God for hospitality/service.
____ Looking forward to the future.
Based on your answers above, are there any areas of your life that need work?